What’s on your wish list? Are there people you want
to meet, things you want to try, places you want to visit?
For me, it’s all of the above and more.
Some people say dreams are more likely to come true
if you write them down. I tend to believe it.
A few years ago, a friend of mine created a ‘50 at
50’ list. Over the next few years, I watched as she made one after another of her
dreams reality.
It took me a while, but eventually I created my own
list. Each year, I cross off the dreams I’ve seen come true, replace the ones
that aren’t important to me anymore and add enough to make the number of dreams
equal to number representing my most recent birthday. I’m working on 60 at 60
for a couple more weeks; then it will be time to look at the list once again.
Recently, I crossed off a big one – one of the
biggest, perhaps. I went to Ireland – and so did my mother. We talked about
going a number of years ago, but one thing after another seemed to get in the
way, and we didn’t make the trip back then.
This time, thanks to lots of free airline miles, my mother
and I were able to cross the Atlantic for nothing. Once there, we had expenses,
of course, but the overall cost was considerably less than it would have been
had we had to pay for our air fare.
I think both of us have held a little piece of this
dream in our hearts for most of our lives.
My mother’s mother, full-blooded Irish, was always proud
of her heritage. Her ancestors had come from the Emerald Isle, most during the
potato famine. One young married couple lost their first-born daughter on the
overseas journey. Like many of her day, little Mary was buried at sea.
Mother grew up hearing this and other stories from
my grandma and great-grandmother. Grandma and mother shared them with me.
Through the years, I think Mother and I imagined
that Ireland must surely have been a magical place. We longed to see it and painted
it in our imaginations brighter than the gold in a leprechaun’s pot.
From the moment we stepped off the plane, and I
suggested we kiss the ground for Grandma’s sake, (we didn’t, though) to the time
when we stepped from the Dublin airport floor back onto the ramp to our Boeing 767,
we felt as if we were living a dream. And, indeed we were.
In coming blog posts, I’ll share snippets of the
places we visited, the sites we saw, the people we met.
Was the dream worth the effort, the experience all
we’d hoped, the time the gift we thought it would be?
Absolutely!
What’s your dream?
First, imagine it. Then, put it
down on paper. Next, work to make it come true. All you’ve got left to do after
that is to savor it.
We sure did.
© Ann Tracy Mueller 2013 (Words and image)
What a wonderful dream: traveling with your Mom!
ReplyDeleteAnnie and I were to go to Croatia [My mother was born there] this next October, but Annie's breast cancer was discovered. I "hemmed and hawed" but
now I am going alone........It is a tour and
I know the tour guide! Happy Day, Ann!
You didn't mention your name, but I'm sorry to hear of your Annie's breast cancer. Enjoy your trip. How cool that you know your guide. That will make it all the more special. Thanks for taking the time to share your bittersweet story. Ann
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